Emotional Intelligence

    We are what we are seen through our actions, emotions affect our actions and the emotions are from a sitmulus. Learning how to control the out come of what to do and how to move forward positivly is important because it keeps people more comfortable and relaxed because nothing that's not expected is happening. A outrage can surpise people in different ways and they will react in ways that might not be best to carry on their tasks. Controling one's self also keeps the outcome in one's own hands, everything is in one's own control. I personally never blame anyone for my problems because once I blame that person I lose the control to change the situation so by keeping it on myself no matter what it is. To have the control and not be blinded by emotions and act on the emotions but instead of using them as a guide kind of like bumpers in bowling some people use them a part of the game, some use them to occasionaly catch themselves and others view as if there not even there. The key is to know their there but not use them because that's not the best way to play the game. Much like bowling, emotions can be a game or a dance even we all go though a ballet of emotions. Knowing but not acting on emotions keeps things in a more managable manner that keeps the leader in complete control even under stress.